+ in the voice of a la gossip girl +
when faced in a turmoil in the azubirian familia, there is never a period to discuss alternative solutions. a solution is always ready at the tip of the tongue of the older azubirians. although by courtesy two choices were offered as a solution by the older azubirians to the younger azubirians (who are always the other end that caused the turmoil) — there is really only one path to take. it’s either do (following the older azubirian) or die (following your own decision).
if only one of the two party of this star-crossed lovers cheats, it’d make the parting easier.
otherwise, you could committ one disastrous act from your part. crossing your would-have-been-mother-in-law (who happens to be an azubirian at that) shows that you have already hit the lowest point of your life — and that is sooo not the azubirian standard.